Ep-3: Main Character Syndrome: Living Life Like a Movie (But It's Actually a Mess)

 

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You’re walking down the street, headphones in, staring dramatically into the distance. Maybe it’s raining, maybe there’s a perfect song playing in the background, and for a second, you feel like the main character in a coming-of-age movie. The world is your backdrop, and every interaction is a plot twist. And you? You’re the star.

But then, reality hits. You trip over absolutely nothing, wave back at someone who wasn’t waving at you, or spend an embarrassing time trying to plug in your charger the right way. Suddenly, your cinematic moment is less an indie masterpiece and more an awkward teen sitcom.

Welcome to Main Character Syndrome—that feeling that your life should play out like a perfectly scripted Netflix series, full of deep monologues, aesthetic montages, and poetic moments of self-discovery. But here’s the truth: Real life is messy. It’s full of awkward pauses, bad hair days, and conversations that don’t sound like they were written by a genius screenwriter. And that’s okay.

Because maybe being the "main character" isn’t about looking aesthetic or having the perfect story arc. Perhaps it’s about actually living your life—taking risks, laughing at the cringy moments, and realizing that the best parts of the story are the ones you don’t try to script.

So, go ahead. Romanticize your life. Make playlists for different moods. Stare out the window like you’re in a music video. But don’t forget—you’re already the main character of your life. You don’t need a perfect script, just a little bit of polish.

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