Hormones Don’t Play Fair

 


Let’s be honest, periods are hard. Acne pops up like it has its own schedule, your thoughts run wild, you cry for no reason, and everything annoys you. Even the air feels wrong. The smallest things can set you off, from a random text to a meme that doesn’t hit just right. You find yourself getting mad at literally nothing, and somehow, even your favourite show becomes unbearable.

And yes… anger spills everywhere. I text my friends, and they just get it. “Don’t bother me today,” or they send a meme that says, “It’s okay, I get you.” Those friends? Absolute heroes. The ones who understand that hormones are basically chaos incarnate and don’t ask unnecessary questions are the real MVPs.

Periods are not easy. Cramps, mood swings, and random waves of emotions make life feel ten times harder. Crying over cartoons, a song, a snack, or even a horror movie? Absolutely. Yes, I cried while watching a horror movie. Don’t judge me; it was period week. Feeling like the world is against you? Also normal. And somehow, chocolate becomes a life-saving miracle, a small victory in an otherwise chaotic week.

The good part? Friends who understand you make it bearable. They let you be dramatic, sad, angry, or extra, and they still stay with you. That’s real friendship. That’s surviving together. That’s what makes period week manageable.

So if you’re on your period, remember: your moods are okay, your tears are okay, your anger is okay… and chocolate is always allowed. Surviving this? That’s a strength.

But then… we still act good in front of others. You should thank yourself, I swear—I mean, I try my best, haha!

PS: If you want to make your girlfriend or friend happy when she’s on her period, text me and thank me later.

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